After traveling through the book and becoming the fake daughter's biological sister

Chapter 580 Learn to Apologize

All the women in the room laughed.

Several men standing at the door also laughed.

Among family members, drinking and singing is nothing, especially between a young couple.

Yun Zhang became serious again and said to everyone: "I was just saying it casually."

Everyone responded seriously: "Yuanbao, you know a lot, go ahead."

Yun Zhang said: "When I say rely on oneself, it also includes Guihua Village relying on itself. Apart from other things, what is better for Guihua Village? Is it for everyone to rise to heaven, get promoted and become rich, or for the wife to die?"

Bao Yan nodded, that must be to improve yourself and read more. If you are like Weiguo, there are many things you can do.

Yun Zhang said, "Confidence is very important. Confidence means believing in yourself. I believe that Guihua Village has a bright future. But the future is not all smooth sailing. How can we face challenges and win every battle? We can only rely on ourselves. Studying is one aspect. Everyone knows that studying is the same as being an apprentice. It is just learning a skill, which is of little use to one's character. Most unfaithful people are scholars, and scholars are spineless. Why is this so? It can be seen that the cultivation of personality is another matter."

Everyone looked at Yuanbao more seriously.

Yun Zhang said, "I don't understand either. I'm just offering a suggestion. Just like those who have good backgrounds, they can't be raised well. How should they be raised? This is worth studying carefully. This is also what I want to say, the next goal. If people are raised well, they will grow into towering trees, and they will naturally not be afraid of wind and rain."

Baoyan listened more carefully, which made it more worthwhile.

Yun Zhang said, "It's not just the children you raise, it's also the parents and the elderly. Only if you raise yourself well can you raise children. If you are confused, the children you raise will certainly be confused. Changing yourself is the most difficult, but the most rewarding. The elderly should really enjoy themselves, not poison them. If you want your children to have a better future, you must change. It's hard to raise a child, but it's quick to ruin him. He may have been poisoned before you even notice it."

Yun Zhang said, "Old people all have their own ideas, and it's hard to get you to change them. But things are precious because they are difficult to do. Aren't you thinking about how to make it good? The real good is right here, but you don't want it. Also, of course, children are different, every child is different, but every child is a treasure. No matter if he is born healthy or not, smart or not. He is a life. If you respect him and raise him well, you will definitely be rewarded."

Yun Zhang said, "Let's not talk about late bloomers. It's just an ordinary child. Isn't it good to farm and support himself in the future? You need to be confident, and give your child confidence. Being smart is good, and being ordinary is also good. As long as he is healthy and mentally healthy, it's good. The osmanthus tree is not as tall as some trees, and the orchid is not as tall as the osmanthus tree. They each have their own value. The wheat in the field is indispensable to everyone."

Everyone pretty much understood.

Yu Baozong understood: "If I have time, I will think about how to raise a child."

Yun Zhang said, "Don't cheat the child."

Yu Baozong replied honestly: "I don't dare."

Yun Zhang said: "Then go back and apologize to the child."

Yu Baozong said straightforwardly: "I'll do as you say."

Qiu Ju grumbled: "You apologize to your child, which means you respect him, and he will be more filial to you in the future."

Yun Zhang said, "If you know your mistakes and can correct them, isn't that what the saints said? If you let go of your non-existent face, you will be close to being a saint."

An uncle laughed and said, "Then I will go back and apologize to the child's mother."

Yun Zhang said, "Some things are easy to do and have benefits, so why not do them? Don't look down on people who are slick-tongued, because that means they are useful. You don't need to learn that, but when it's time to admit your mistakes, there's nothing wrong with not being able to open your mouth. Not being able to open your mouth means you're not serious. If you just muddle through, that's fine. If you want to do better, better, better, then you have to be serious, serious, and more serious. So I say, it's useless to ask others for these things, the root cause lies in yourself."

Yun Zhang added: "Don't worry about being envied by others because you are too good. You are still far from being good enough. Others may not even acknowledge you."

Everyone laughed.

One girl said, "Third sister is so powerful, those people don't recognize her."

Yun Zhang said: "I do what I should do, and I have a clear conscience, that's all. This is self-confidence."

The girl nodded.

It was windy and rainy outside, but the west wing was warm.

People at the door squeezed in, just like before, women squeezed on one side, men squeezed on the other, those who could sit sat down, squeezed together or sat on someone else's lap.

Although Yunzhang was sitting alone, there were people around him and it was lively.

Qiu Xiangju excitedly gossiped with Yuanbao, and no one else interrupted: "Qu Yu didn't like anyone, but she ended up falling for Xiang Gao from Baima Village."

An old lady interrupted, "When Quyu and Xiang Gao were together, Xiang Gao's wife was still alive." She said to Yuanbao solemnly, "Although Quyu is dead, this matter still needs to be told. It is said that she went to talk to Xiang Gao's wife and said that she was from Guihua Village or something, and then Xiang Gao's wife died of illness. Although Xiang Gao is also a good-for-nothing, Guihua Village cannot be so wicked."

Yun Zhang nodded and said casually: "No matter what happens to Guihua Village in the future, we must not do anything immoral, and we must not think that it is a small matter. This is the way a thousand-mile embankment is destroyed by an ant hole. The higher Guihua Village stands, the stricter the requirements must be. Whatever others say is not well-intentioned."

Everyone nodded.

Yun Zhang added, "All people are the same. The people of Guihua Village are not noble, and neither am I. Don't noble people feel ashamed when they do something immoral?"

Everyone nodded. They knew whether it was noble or not, but it was definitely not okay to be noble and do something immoral.

Qiu Ju said: "We point fingers at the rich and powerful, but we ourselves should not be pointed at by others."

The old lady replied, "That's right."

Qiu Xiangju continued gossiping: "The Xiang family of Baima Village is getting married to Guihua Village, and they are preparing for this and that."

Yu Baozong followed up with a complaint: "I don't know whose dog the Xiang family has become. Xiang Gao still wants to be my brother."

Yun Zhang said: "You are amazing."

Yu Baozong laughed awkwardly.

Qiu Xiangju said: "The old aunt of the Xiang family married to the city, and later moved to the capital. She must have been a dog. I didn't expect that she dared to bring the village girl of the Xiang family with her. That village girl is unworthy!"

Qiu Ju followed the old lady and complained: "The Xiang family is so shameless."

Bao Yan also complained: "Qu Yu is from our Qu family. The Xiang family tries their best to come to our house and uses our family name when they go out."

Now that they are all hung outside in the rain, Baoyan feels that some things will never wake up, but some things should wake up.

Guihua Village has high standards for itself, but it does not allow them to bully it, just like Yuanbao. It is the principle of life to have high standards for oneself, and you cannot be polite when being bullied.

Yun Zhang scanned the area with his spiritual sense and saw that there were quite a few people who wanted to gossip about the Yun family at night, so he backed off.